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My Journey Through The Ecclesiastical Maze

Part 25

I’m All Meetinged  Out

 

Hebrews 10:25 says. “let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing.”.  I’ve talked about the Sunday morning meetings earlier.  Now I‘d like to address meetings in general.  

 

As I write these words I’m almost fifty seven years old and I’ve attended more than ten thousand Christian meetings in my life to date.  I was first brought to a church meeting while in the arms of my mother as a baby, and I’ve been returning ever since.  So I am writing from a measure of experience.  

 

I began getting “meetinged out”, as I call it,  after returning home from Bible college in 1977.  It seemed that Bible college was just one big meeting that lasted for months.  The meetings at college I benefited most from were those impromptu gatherings with my friends in our dorms.  That’s only to be expected because our friendships in the Body of Christ are fundamental to church.

 

By the mid 1980’s my boredom with excessive meetings intensified.  In those days I felt that to be a good Christian, and for me that meant a good Charismatic Christian, I had to be rich.  That was a problem because I wasn’t rich.  The pressure was always on to attend all sorts of conferences, in all sorts of expensive hotels, in all sorts of big cities across North America .  All of this took all sorts of money that I didn’t have.   I know if I just mention the words “Kansas City” to some of my brothers, a flood of thirty year old memories will sweep over them, some good, and some not so good. 

 

One such weekend men’s convention was held in Washington D. C.,  just three blocks from Capital Hill in 1979.  We drove fifteen hours from Canada in order to stay in an expensive downtown Washington hotel for a brief two nights. 

 

While at this conference my friend took an elevator up from the underground parking lot into the hotel where he thought we were staying.  Upon entering the lobby of the hotel from the elevator he saw scores of very husky and hefty looking women.  Canadian singer songwriter Bruce Cockburn had a hit song back then entitled “Wondering Where The Lions Are”.  Well, my friend wasn’t wondering where the lions were. He was wondering where his brothers in Christ were because he had landed himself into the midst of the National U. S. Transvestite Convention.  What a shock for a small town Canadian guy.  After noticing that he had taken the wrong elevator to the wrong hotel, he crossed the street to the right hotel where he felt much more comfortable with his brothers in Christ.                

 

By the time the 1990’s rolled around I was pretty well “meetinged out” for good, especially when it came to expensive weekend conferences that were advertised to change your life but never did.  What really changed my life over the years was my interaction with Jesus and those He had placed me with in the Body of Christ, and I didn’t need lots of money to be with Jesus and my friends.   

 

In the church I was associated with during the 1990’s we were expected to attend weekend conventions.  In 2001 a couple of us just decided to stay home. We ended up being branded as uncooperative and uncommitted by leadership.  Personally speaking, I’d rather be out serving Jesus in some practical way than just sitting in another meeting.    

 

While walking our dog just a month ago my wife and I met an acquaintance who asked us “where we were going Sunday mornings these days”,  as if it was normal practice for Christians to move from one Sunday morning meeting to another every so often.  I guess now that I think of it, moving from place to place is pretty well normal practice these days.  When this acquaintance found out that we weren’t going anywhere on Sundays, he tried to persuade us to attend the Sunday meeting he attended.  I told him that even though we did not attend a Sunday meeting we were still in compliance with Hebrews 10:25.  We were still gathering with other Christians, but just not on a Sunday morning and in a building that most people call church.  That was hard for him to comprehend.

 

If you notice, Hebrews 10:25 does not tell us when to assemble, where to assemble, or who to assemble with.  As a matter of fact, no where in the New Testament can you find words telling us where to meet, when to meet, how often to meet, and who to meet with.  What it does talk about is what to do when we meet.  That’s found in 1 Corinthians 14, but is seldom done in church today. So we’ve majored on what the Bible doesn’t say while neglecting what it does say.  I’d appreciate meetings more if they followed New Testament teaching.     

 

If you look at the sentence before Hebrews 10:25 you will see why the writer of Hebrews tells us to gather together, and it has nothing to do with a Sunday meeting. It has nothing to do with listening to a sermon, giving an offering, or just sitting in a pew.  Verse 24 tells us that when we gather together “we should spur one another on to love and good deeds”.  Hopefully our meetings do just that.  I’d suggest that the good deeds we’re supposed to encourage each other to do in meetings actually take place outside of church meetings.  This is not usually the case.  Many if not most of the good works we do take place in a meeting and in a church building.  I think that many of us spend more time than necessary in meetings and not enough time out doing the will of the Lord in whatever capacity He has for us.

 

Our meetings might well be in the process of change anyway. For example, in one nearby Canadian city the city council is reviewing changes to their property bylaws concerning the creation of new subdivisions in relation to religious groups and their buildings.  The proposed change limits the space available for a religious building in new sub-divisions to one lot for every ten thousand residents.  When I say “religious building”, I don’t  mean “buildings belonging to Christians”.  I mean any religious building.  Christians would have to compete with other religious groups for that one plot of land.  The city is also considering limiting the number of people that can attend a religious meeting in a home to no more than twenty people.  The reason for this is due to parking restrictions for cars on the street. 

 

So as you can see, our western governments are beginning to put the squeeze on us.  We might well be forced to meet in groups of twenty or less, and in places that aren’t a traditional church building.  With this in mind we might want to rethink the whole structure of church, including our meetings.  This may not be  acceptable to you at the moment.  If it’s not, I’d suggest that you consider how the Christian church will survive in a society that is fast becoming indifferent and even hostile to our cause.  The ecclesiastical maze might well be forced to make many changes that it may not like, but might actually be the will of our Lord in the long run.                    

 

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